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The most ideal amount of betrothal gifts for getting married in 2025. This number | Report on Young People Discussing Marriage

后浪研究所2025-02-22 09:30
Why do humans get married?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love is a complex emotional need. Humans seek recognition in intimate relationships, combat boredom, and aspire to establish an exclusive emotional community in this world. When love reaches an extreme level, the idea of marriage comes to mind. At this point, love is not just a spiritual entanglement between two people; now it will undergo more "scrutiny" at the social level.

Do young people need an economic foundation to get married? The answer is yes. Are high betrothal gifts, a car, and a house mandatory? The questionnaire data from "Post-Wave Research Institute" indicates that the answer is: No.

In real life, many young people no longer care about the traditional betrothal gifts and dowries, and the wedding house is not the responsibility of one party. "Diamonds under one carat are worthless crushed diamonds" is just said as a joke, and many people think gold rings are better.

So, when it comes to discussing marriage, what are young people talking about? They are talking about friendly and harmonious families on both sides, stable incomes and jobs, and absolute honesty in major health issues... What young people care about is never material things, but the most basic qualities of a person. The various "conditions" for discussing marriage are to find a bit of rationality in the indulgence of free will, and in a brief moment of clarity, make a judgment on whether to continue the indulgence.

When I asked a friend who is preparing for the wedding why they chose to marry their partner, the friend happily shared with me the various wonderful qualities of the other person. But when I asked the AI "Why do humans get married?", the answer I got was: Server is busy. Please try again later.

Forget it. It's impossible to make it clear to you AI.